Từ khi còn nhỏ, chúng ta thường được bảo rằng, khi thích ai đó, điều tồi tệ nhất để làm là quá thẳng thắn hoặc quá quan tâm. Cho họ thấy sự thích thú của chúng ta, rõ ràng điều này sẽ phá huỷ mọi cơ hội của một mối quan hệ. Nhưng có phải việc tỏ ra lạnh lùng là luôn cần thiết? Và những khao khát cũng như hứng thú tự phát luôn luôn là cấm kỵ? The School of Life đã đặt ra thuyết cơ bản về việc làm sao để tỏ rõ sự khôn ngoan khi bắt đầu một mối quan hệ.

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We tend to be told, from a young age, that the very worst thing to do when we like someone is to seem too direct or keen. Showing our interest is, apparently, fatal to the chances of a relationship. But is playing it cool always so necessary? And are spontaneous desire and enthusiasm always so taboo? The School of Life puts forward an original theory of how to play things wisely at the start. Sign up to our new newsletter and get 10% off your first online order of a book, product or class: https://bit.ly/2LayJ9F For gifts and more from The School of Life, visit our online shop: https://bit.ly/2PhzbG3 Our website has classes, articles and products to help you think and grow: https://bit.ly/2PpClr6 Download our App: https://bit.ly/2y1zRZu FURTHER READING You can read more on this and other subjects on our blog, here: https://bit.ly/2RvsXnk “One of the paradoxes of the dating game is that we know that by coming across as enthusiastic at an early stage – if we ring them the next day, if we are open about how attractive we find them, if we suggest meeting them again very soon – we are putting ourselves at a high risk of disgusting the very person we would so like to get to know better...” MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE Visit us in person at our London HQ: https://bit.ly/2C0hA1u Watch more films on RELATIONSHIPS in our playlist: http://bit.ly/TSOLrelationships You can submit translations and transcripts on all of our videos here: https://www.youtube.com/timedtext_cs_... Find out how more here: https://support.google.com/youtube/an... SOCIAL MEDIA Feel free to follow us at the links below: Download our App: https://bit.ly/2y1zRZu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschoolofl... Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschoolof... CREDITS Produced in collaboration with: Gemma Green-Hope http://www.gemmagreenhope.com/ #TheSchoolOfLife #Relationships #Love